{"id":300173,"date":"2020-11-12T07:53:57","date_gmt":"2020-11-12T11:53:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.nicolethemathlady.com\/gratitude-one-sure-way-make-life-better\/"},"modified":"2020-11-12T07:53:57","modified_gmt":"2020-11-12T11:53:57","slug":"gratitude-one-sure-way-make-life-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.nicolethemathlady.com\/gratitude-one-sure-way-make-life-better\/","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude: The One Sure Way to Make Life Better"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cThe more grateful I am, the more beauty I see.\u201d \u2013 Mary Davis<\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hey there! How&#8217;s it going? <\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It seems like gratitude is the buzzword of November, and for good reason: before we sit down to our turkey and mashed potatoes, we generally all take a moment to count our blessings. But one reason more people are talking about gratitude all month long is that <strong>there are real benefits to enumerating all the things we have to be thankful for. <\/strong>(Enumerating? Yes, I can make even gratitude into a math thing.)<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want good things for you and the students you are guiding. That\u2019s one reason why, every November, we pause here at Nicole the Math Lady to issue a non-math challenge: <\/span><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/nicolethemathlady.com\/announcements\/3-reasons-to-practice-gratitude\/\">The Gratitude Challenge<\/a><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>.<\/strong> It\u2019s a way to slow down and remember that, even when things are hard (and in November, so many things can feel hard), there\u2019s good stuff to be thankful for. We just need to remember to do it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-300175\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.nicolethemathlady.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/111220-Benefits-of-Gratitude.jpg\" alt=\"gratitude, nicole the math lady\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.nicolethemathlady.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/111220-Benefits-of-Gratitude.jpg 940w, https:\/\/blog.nicolethemathlady.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/111220-Benefits-of-Gratitude-300x251.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.nicolethemathlady.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/111220-Benefits-of-Gratitude-768x644.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, forgetting the good things in our lives is nothing new. In fact, when Abraham Lincoln instituted the holiday of Thanksgiving, he <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.abrahamlincolnonline.org\/lincoln\/speeches\/thanks.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">remarked on that very thing<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: that blessings we enjoy \u201care so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come.<\/span><b>\u201d <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to be intentional about giving thanks!<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beyond that, there are so many benefits to showing gratitude. Want to be healthier? Give thanks! Want to be happier? Give thanks! Want to feel more alive and present? Give thanks! Want to feel less isolated, more compassionate, develop generosity? You guessed it: give thanks!<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Listen, I\u2019m not making this up. Gratitude has become a huge field of study and the results are remarkable. Finding things you\u2019re grateful for can <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/prefrontal-nudity\/201211\/the-grateful-brain\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">help you sleep better, and reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Gratitude can also <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.today.com\/health\/be-thankful-science-says-gratitude-good-your-health-t58256\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">improve the health of your heart<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It also appears to make you <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.harvard.edu\/healthbeat\/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feel more optimistic, motivate you to exercise more, and feel better about life in general.&nbsp;<\/span><\/a><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>You\u2019d almost think gratitude was a wonderdrug!<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that\u2019s why I want us to practice it more. This has been a rough year, and it can be hard to look around at the changes and not feel a sense of loss. And yet, <strong>people who cultivate the practice of gratitude can find something to be thankful for in any situation and that can be so helpful for our attitudes and perspectives.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This year, I\u2019m challenging your kids to find something to be grateful for every day for five days. I encourage you to help them make their list. And I think you\u2019ll find that if you do, you\u2019ll have some great conversations about what to be thankful for, and why.&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do you do it? Well, you might look back at good memories you\u2019ve shared. You could look forward to things you hope will happen. You can look around at whatever is in front of you or think about your day or consider what\u2019s working in your life right now and together find something you can be grateful for.<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think when you do, <strong>you\u2019ll find you both breathe a little easier, smile a little more freely, and feel a little less stressed.<\/strong> Then, you just need to sit down and do it again the next day. Together, we can practice and reap the benefits of gratitude, together. And THAT is something to be thankful for.<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk to you soon,<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nicole the Math Lady<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">P.S. <strong>Here are the details on how to submit your child\u2019s list for inclusion on my Gratitude Challenge Video:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have your student make a list of one or more things they are grateful for every day. They can make the list or you can write it for them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do that for five days in a row.<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Post a picture of the list in the Facebook group with the hashtag #Gratitude2020 by Tuesday, November 24. (If you\u2019re not on Facebook, email it to <\/span><a href=\"mailto:info@nicolethemathlady.com\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">info@nicolethemathlady.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with the subject line GRATITUDE 2020.) Make sure your student\u2019s first name and age is on the picture!<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch for your student on our 2020 Gratitude Celebration Video Thanksgiving week. We\u2019ll send it via email and post it online.<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want to participate yourself? I\u2019d love to see the lists you come up with, too.<\/span><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe more grateful I am, the more beauty I see.\u201d \u2013 Mary Davis Hey there! How&#8217;s it going? 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